TCNY SUPPORT NEWS: FIRST COMES LOVE: DATING: IMPROVING YOUR GAME | TAYLOR & KRISTEN WILKERSON

 

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SERMON SERIES: FIRST COMES LOVE 

SERMON MESSAGE: DATING: IMPROVING YOUR GAME

BY PASTORS TAYLOR & KRISTEN WILKERSON 

CHURCH SONGS

01. You're Gonna Get The Glory

02. Fresh Wind / Beautiful Name 

03. Everything Is Changing 

BIBLE VERSES

01. Hebrews 12:1 (NIV)

02. Hebrews 12:2 (NIV)

03. Hebrews 12:3 (NIV)

04. Proverbs 25:24 (ASV) & (NIV)

05. Proverbs 25:28 (NIV)

06. Proverbs 12:26 (NIV)

07. 1 Corinthians 9:24 (NIV)

08. 2 Corinthians 6:14 (NIV)

09. 1 Corinthians 7:9 (NIV)

10. Romans 8:28 (NIV)

11. Proverbs 29:18 (NIV)

12. 1 Corinthians 14:33 (NIV)

CHURCH SERMON NOTES 

They Were Friends When They Were Only 19 Years Old, They Went To A Leadership Conference Spring Break 

Point One Go To Leadership Conferences Instead Of Pandaimonien Beach 

Basically Kristen Was Only Taylor’s Friend

Was At The Leadership Conference 

Was Going To Sit Together 

Where There Was A Time When A Former President 

Was Actually Sitting  There

Taylor Said To Kristen “Hey Girl”

Kristen Is Taylor’s VIP

There Are In Different Sports

“How Do You Get From The Friend Zone To The End Zone” - Pastor Kristen Wilkerson

The Bible doesn’t talk anything about dating 

But it does say a lot about evaluating 

Men Do Have Thicker Skin 

Men And Women Have Different Brains

Men Do Have Made Competency Than Cold Temperatures 

Women Have Different Memory Sensors 

Women Have Different Cold Temperatures 

Confusion With This Different Topic

Who Are You Going To Pursue 

Who Are You Going To Spend The Rest Of Your Life With 

Super Bowl Sunday 

God Is Good

All The Time

During The Dating

Season

First Comes Love

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Dating is not a destination. 

It's a process for evaluation. 

What?

What Is Dating?

Dating is not a destination. 

It’s a process for evaluation. 

Who?

Who Should You Date?

Who?

1) Same Team

2) Character

3) Chemistry

How?

How To Date?

How To Date

1) Prayerfully

2) Clarity

3) Autonomy

4) Purity

5) Graciously

6) Community

7) Patiently 

1) Prayerfully

Prayer reminds us that 

God is in control

2) Clarity

Vision For The Future

3) Autonomy 

Dating is not a status,

its a process 

4) Purity

Sex distorts the

evaluation process 

5) Graciously 

Your Aim Should Be To Bless,

Not Simply To Impress 

6) Community 

Trust others in the

evaluating process 

7) Patiently

Wait long enough to see their

true character 

Hebrews   12:1   NIV   

[1] Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us,  

 

Hebrews   12:2   NIV   

[2] fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.  

 

Hebrews   12:3   NIV   

[3] Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart. 

Proverbs 25:24 NIV

[24] Better to live on a corner of the roof

than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. 

 

Proverbs   25:24   ASV  

[24] It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, Than with a contentious woman in a wide house. 

 

Proverbs   25:28   NIV   

[28] Like a city whose walls are broken through is a person who lacks self-control. 

 

Proverbs   12:26   NIV   

[26] The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray. 

 

1 Corinthians   9:24   NIV   

[24] Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize.  

 

2 Corinthians   6:14   NIV   

[14] Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?  

 

1 Corinthians   7:9   NIV   

[9] But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion. 

 

Romans   8:28   NIV 

[28] And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.  

 

Proverbs   29:18   NIV   

[18] Where there is no revelation, people cast off restraint; but blessed is the one who heeds wisdom’s instruction. 

 

1 Corinthians   14:33   NIV   

[33] For God is not a God of disorder but of peace—as in all the congregations of the Lord’s people.